Traveling to family
gatherings can be stressful, or it can be fun.
Snacks, drinks, a favorite blanket, drawing materials, books,
storytelling, and games keep the family happy while riding along.
What To Do:
Young children love
to hear about family member’s childhood.
It is their first exposure to history and stories of people they
love. Most important these tales are
passed on and not lost.
Think of some
lessons of kindness, perseverance, courage and triumph over difficulty. Perhaps
your grandparents told you some funny or scary stories you vividly
remember. Retelling the story with
exaggerations, descriptions, and sound effects will make it come alive for your
children, too. When you reach your
destination, children will rush in and tell all about what they heard on
the way.
Children can play
Tic Tac Toe and Dots game with a hardcover book for a desk. To play Dots make
ten rows and columns of dots equally spaced. Each player has one turn to
connect two dots. The object is to
connect dots to enclose a square, put your initial inside, and earn another
turn. The player with the most squares wins. Preschool children catch on to
these two games quickly.
You’re about an hour
into the trip. Now what? Take a few
verbal games out of your bag of tricks.
One game is called “What Do You Know?”
The adult asks simple questions and children take turns giving their
answers. Questions are based on children’s
age, interest, and vocabulary. For
example for the younger child, “How many colors do you know? What foods are red? What do we call people
who take care of us when we get sick?”
For older children
the questions could be related to geography or history. “How many states begin
with the word New? Now many bird names
can you remember?
Can you name a holiday for each month?”
Another car game is
called “I just saw it.” One person begins having noticed something just
passed—for instance, a telephone pole. “ It was tall and thin. I just saw
it.” The others begin to guess. If they fail, the person adds more clues
until the object is guessed.
“Colors” is played by
naming a common color. When two things
are found you take turns switching to another color.
How does this Help My Children?
A recent study
compared the vocabulary of children entering kindergarten from the 1950’s and
2009. It found that children in the 1950’s had DOUBLE the vocabulary entering
school. Family games and conversation
help build vocabulary used for reading and success in school.
Illustration: Mark Nowicki
Photo: Photo: Norman, Steve. nat143.jpg. . Pics4Learning. 22 Dec 2012