The ladder is an excellent way to imagine how to
assist children in learning anything new from using a spoon to bike riding. Your role as teacher is to prop them up and encourage
them to pursue a task while monitoring, coaching, and adjusting their steps
along the way. Although this may sound
daunting, you probably do it all the time without even realizing it.
Tying Shoes
Take, for instance, the task of tying
shoelaces. Obviously, you can’t teach
your children to tie their shoes for the first time by simply telling them to
do it or showing them only once.
Although they have seen you do it many times, it is unlikely that they
will learn to do it on their own without some careful assistance from you. That’s when you bring out the ladder, so to
speak.
Many families wait until children are about
five when fingers and hands are more able. Before that Velcro closures help
avoid frustration for children and helpers.
"Kinderschuhe Romika 1884" by NobbiP |
First, prepare to break the skill down into
very small steps. Sit side-by-side
rather than face-to-face so each step can be imitated more easily. Use a marker to color one lace or use
different colored laces so children can see how each lace moves.
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Some families like to use an adult shoe with
longer laces. If it helps, tell a little story, song or rhyme to guide the
process and help the children remember. Talk out loud together. Most important, be patient, consistent, and
encouraging. Although there are many creative ways to tie a shoelace like
crossing “bunny ears” or “loop and swoop” you will probably be most comfortable
teaching as you have been taught. The
key is repetition, little steps and stopping before to much frustration. Every
child is different and learns skills at different ages even within families.
Through this special shared experience, you
are allowing children to gain confidence and build important new skills. Soon you’ll soon glance up to see a confident
child, displaying two floppy shoe bows and one very large grin. You have steadied the ladder of learning to
an early success a child will never forget.
Guest writer
is educator Gail Juntunen.
Photo: Mark Nowicki
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